Relaxing can be a challenge as Mars and Jupiter fuse together in Virgo, the sign of nervous energy. Virgo lets us know via our physical state what kind of energetic condition we are in. Muscle tension could be a thing right now, and we might do well to check in with our breath through out the day. Maybe try something new; inspired action -- even if it "turns out" to be an epic "failure"-- is much more fun and expansive than anxious tension.
Venus continues to square Saturn, and so relationship, sexuality, and self-worth issues may be coming up to be managed. We may feel like we don't have the "luxury" of relaxing and softening into a connected heart space. "I don't have the time," or "It never works out anyway," or "I've tried that before, and look how that went," or "that's not realistic." OK, fair enough. That voice has a place, too. Feel free to take a little vacation from positivity if you need to; sometimes it can help to have an air punching temper tantrum to let off some steam and say our piece. The horse will be there when you are ready to get back on.